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Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Downeast Basics Giveaway


Madeline of Uber Chic for Cheap is having a giveaway on her website from Downeast Basics! If you enter, you have the chance to win the clothing item of your choice, selected from their new arrivals. Simply go to Uber Chic for Cheap and leave a comment with which item you love the most, along with your first name and email. Winners will be drawn on Sunday - good luck!

Monday, July 19, 2010

Baby Update

For those of you who don't know (and if the "how big your baby is compared to food" widget didn't give it away), David and I are expecting a baby in January! This accounts for the complete lack of blogging activity for the past few months, and the fact that there's a social networking sites moratorium on the computers at work. :)

I'm 14 weeks pregnant today! I made it successfully and for the most part unscathed through the first trimester. Fortunately, the nausea was minimal and the throwing up was nonexistent, so I consider myself fairly lucky to have not had to deal with that too badly (although it sure felt worse when I was experiencing it). I had my first prenatal appointment a month ago, and David and I got to hear the baby's heartbeat for the first time then! That was pretty awesome. I wasn't sure exactly how far along I was, so we had an ultrasound to determine that. Here are a few pictures:


This is the side view. I was about 11 weeks pregnant then, so the baby still looks a little alien-like. Can you see the tiny arms?



 This is the top view. You can see the baby's head right in the middle, with the left arm just off-center.

I had my second prenatal appointment today, where I got to hear the baby's heartbeat again and schedule an ultrasound in six weeks to determine the gender! And FYI, we will, of course, be telling everyone what we're having (as far as sex is concerned), but we're not telling you any names. We're picking ones we like, zipping our lips, and presenting the baby to the world with a non-negotiable moniker. Sorry for those of you who were looking forward to some sort of name poll, but this is not a democratic decision: you get no votes, and no representation. It's a dictatorship: two people make the decision, and then tell you, and you like it or suffer the consequences! Just kidding. But seriously. :)

Pregnancy has been treating me pretty well thus far. I have the usual complaints - stubborn acne, lower back pain, fatigue, etc. - but it has its advantages. For one thing, I get to eat more and it's okay, even encouraged, and I get to shop for new clothes. It's also an excuse to go to bed early, leave early, or skip out on things in general. I also get to tease my husband. David will come home from work and say, "Oh man, I am so tired!" and I'll say, "What's your excuse? You're not growing another human being!" He can also claim to be "hungry" or any variation of "moody" (angry, upset, disturbed, etc.) and I can use the same response. It's awesome. :) I do miss some things though, and will probably consume them in large quantities after I have the baby and then not want them for another few months after that. I miss mayonnaise and cold lunch meat and cookie dough and creamy salad dressing and slightly pink steak. Anyone know of a good mayo substitute? I put it on/in more things than I realized and really miss it; is that weird?

Anyway, there's your baby update! I'll definitely post more ultrasound pictures when I get them.

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Alaska!

I recently took a trip up to Alaska to visit my mother-in-law, who is up there on business. It was quite an adventure - solo plane rides, midnight sunsets, permafrost forests, delicious dinners, moose, bear, killer mosquitoes, seals, birds, fish, and major jet lag. "Where are the pictures?!" you cry. They're coming, not to worry.


I took this picture out the airplane window coming in
to Anchorage. It's about 12:30 at night and, yes,
the sun is just barely setting.

*Quick side note: my seat on the plane was unexpectedly
changed to the emergency exit aisle; when asked if I was
prepared to assist in the event of an emergency,
I responded, "I've seen all six seasons of 'Lost,'
I know how to survive a plane crash."



This is the view out my in-law's back porch.
It's about 10:30 pm.
*Side note #2: I decided one morning to hike out to the
lake you can see in the picture. I took two steps into the
forest and decided against it. The ground in Alaska is permafrost,
which means it's rock-hard most of the year and thaws to
a degree in the spring and summer. It was like walking on
textured, bouncy foam - the strangest sensation ever!



My mother-in-law and I drove into Anchorage
from Big Lake where she lives almost every day.
One evening we were there, we went to a restaurant
called The Brewhouse, a very fancy shmancy place.
We both ordered this dish: grilled salmon on baby spinach
and garlic mashed potatoes, topped with tomato basil butter
and sprinkled with fresh tomatoes and cucumbers.

Salivating yet?



On my last full day in Alaska, we drove down to Seward,
and the view was spectacular!
This is the Cook Inlet and the Chugach Mountains.
I never got over how enormous they were!




 

What are those white specks, you ask?
Bugs. Dead ones. I took this through the windshield. :)



It was a little windy!



While we were driving along the Seward Highway,
my mother-in-law would point out the window and say,
"Look, they're going net fishing."
Finally, I said, "What's 'net fishing?' Do you just stick your
net in the water and hope something swims in?"
"Yes," she said. "O-kay," I thought, "Optimistic folk,
these Alaskans are." But that's exactly what these people in the
picture are doing. The groups seemed to be families mostly.
The dad would put on waders, grab his net, and walk
not 6 feet from the shore and plop the net in the water.
After twirling it around for a few seconds, he would bring it up,
and at least 10 fish would be inside!
These people could fill up one of those white
food storage buckets with fish in about half an hour!

"That's my kind of fishing," I thought.



I went down to the shore to get a closer look
at the process, and to stick my toes in the Alaska water.
It was SOOO cold! Wow. I took off my shoes,
put my toes in, took the picture, and got out.
The sand was very strange, too: it was dark gray,
sparkly, and extremely compact. This was not a beach to take
those romantic couples "two footprints side-by-side pictures"
- my feet made no impression whatsoever in the sand.





We stopped at an animal refuge on our journey to Seward.
Most of the animals here were found injured or
otherwise incapable of surviving in the wild and
are being rehabilitated, or are there to rebuild their population
because they've been all but eradicated in the wild.

*Sidenote 3: Lest you think that the only moose in Alaska
are in fenced enclosures, I did see two, real, wild, Alaska moose;
they just weren't nearly as close as these two.


Musk ox, against those incredible mountains.



A very friendly brown bear...



...who also acted a little like a dog. Just kidding.
She had been trained to sit and stick out her tongue
so the vet could check up on her.



Caribou/Reindeer. I was surprised to see how
fuzzy their antlers actually were.

*Side note #4: the place was swarming with mosquitoes.
I got over 24 bites on my face, neck, arms, and feet,
and my body has a really bad allergic reaction to bug bites.
I've been home for almost a week and they're still
not gone and haven't yet stopped itching.



When we got to Seward, we visited the aquarium.
It wasn't a large one, but it had great exhibits.




 


 


 


 


 

They had a large, open enclosure full of Alaskan birds as well.

 

This funny little bird, a rhinoceros oclit, was
raised by researchers, so he loves people.
He would splash around to get your attention,
then swim right up to you, trying to escape.











They also had two seals, and a huge stellar sea lion.
We were looking in the enclosure for him when he came
thundering around the corner and dove into the water with
a huge splash that would have drenched us
had not 8-foot plastic walls been protecting us!





 

Beautiful Alaska sunsets (again, around 11:00 pm,
and, sorry, more dead bugs).

It was a great last day to spend in Alaska, because the last night was terrible. My plane was scheduled to leave at 1:55 am, but was running (flying?) late and wouldn't be there until 2:30 am. By the time it got there, they got everyone off, cleaned it (we all yelled, "We don't care if it's clean!"), loaded us and our luggage on, I switched seats again, we didn't leave until 3:30. We got in to Salt Lake around 9:45, and it was 11:00 by the time I finally got home and promptly collapsed for about six hours.

*Last side note about Alaska: people do not live in igloos or drive a team of sled dogs to work. They do not live solely off of what they can kill and cook over an open fire. They do not always have subzero temperatures. They live in normal houses, drive cars, shop at Walmart and Target, pick up their prescriptions at Walgreens, eat at Red Robin, and go into the city on the weekends to shop at the mall. Alaska is, in short, not at all primitive and highly civilized; it's just incredibly vast and amazingly beautiful to boot.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Stick a fork in David, he's done!

It's official: David has successfully survived yet another semester of college! YAY! Last night as we were going to bed around 11:00, he said, "I think I'll go do some homework...oh wait, I don't have any!" He's more than a little excited about this semester being over. It was slightly more intense than last semester:  he took Western Civilizations to 1500, Sociology, Geology, and College Algebra. And worked 20 hours a week. He's ready for a well-deserved break, short though it will be because he's taking a summer class too before he goes to Westminster in the fall. He's more than a little excited about that, too.

Congratulations, David, on another semester well done!

P.S. We're going out to eat on Friday to celebrate; any ideas where we should go?

Monday, April 26, 2010

Help!

I have a dilemma, people. Here is my conundrum: I'm getting a bonus at work shortly, and will of course be spending at least some of it on shoes. I am conflicted about which pair of shoes to get, though; I'm torn between the following:

 Old Navy Faux-leather Cross-strap Wedges - $29.50

OR
Steve Madden Tuxxedo Oxfords - $69.95

There are several conflicting things I'm trying to take into consideration. First, which would I wear more? I already have wedges, and own nothing like the oxfords, but I can think of more places I would wear the wedges. Second, price. The wedges are less expensive, decidedly so, but I can get free shipping for the oxfords and, as already stated, I already own wedges. Third, I would like to try out a look outside my style comfort zone, and I am loving menswear-inspired clothing for women lately. I have also tried my darndest to find cheaper brown, detailed, lace-up oxfords but to no avail. Target has some awesome black ones that are currently out of stock online because they are THE least expensives ones I could find (or anyone could find, it appears). The problem is, I don't want black, I want brown. Here are the outfit inspirations for the shoe choices:

Outfit courtesy of Uber Chic for Cheap



For any of you who are wondering, I'm buying that necklace with or without the wedges. It's just too awesome. I will also be styling the oxfords minus the fedora and the oversize glasses; those stray just a bit too far outside by style comfort zone.

So...which pair do I get? Which pair would you get? Why?

Friday, April 16, 2010

The dangers of vicarious living

When I graduated from college last August, I was quite thrilled about the prospects of no homework, no studying, and no finals. I actually looked forward to just working. However, I quickly realized that my academic life, while hectic and stressful, had filled my life with purpose and kept me busy - and that I now lacked that purpose. But, da-da-da-dum {imagine a trumpet fanfare}, my husband's foray into academia offered me a unique opportunity: I could live vicariously through him! I would be able to participate in that which gave my life meaning for so long without any consequences or responsibility. I could help edit papers, study for tests, crack the whip over David's self-proclaimed procrastination-addicted head, and do it virtually risk-free. What could possibly go wrong?

Well, let me tell you what could go wrong. Let me inform you of the unintended consequences of this mentality. My naive little brain was only focused on the wonderful things of college: the obtaining of new knowledge, the expansion of mental horizons, the shaping and molding of ideas and opinions and thoughts. I've only been out of school for 8 months and I already have collegiate amnesia, a common but extremely vexing affliction that causes a graduate to forget about the grueling work of academia and only remember the rosy parts. Those of you still in college have probably experienced this malady in the form of your parents/relatives when you talk about how difficult your classes and schoolwork are (I know I did); they give you an infuriatingly patronizing look that says, "Oh, it can't be that hard." That's right, my friends. They have collegiate amnesia.

Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Apparently, collegiate amnesia sets in fast. Fortunately, I have a cure! It's very simple: spend 24 hours pretending you're a college student with a HUGE term project due the next day that involves organizing massive amounts of newspaper, cutting, gluing, filing, and beautifying, and you have approximately 12 hours to complete it. That's what I did last night. With David. Until about 3:30 a.m. Did I mention I have work at 8:30? Nothing brings back the reality of college like staying up ridiculously late/early trying to get a big project done and suffering from severe sleep deprivation for the rest of the day.

So, I am happy to announce that I am cured of my collegiate amnesia, at least temporarily. I no longer have any desire to be a student. After last night, I'll take my mundane but easy 9-5 desk job, thank you.

Monday, April 12, 2010

I think perhaps my attitude towards this blog reflects my attitude about life in general right now: I keep waiting for something exciting to happen to post about. I keep waiting for something wonderful and fantastic to fall from the sky and land on my head Newtonian-style and give my life meaning. I fear that I've fallen into the "My life will be great when {fill in the blank}" trap. I think this could be one of the unintended consequences of goals: we focus so much on reaching the end that we miss the middle entirely. And I have lofty goals - goals for me, goals for David, and goals for us as a family. But I don't want David to be so focused on graduation that he misses the wonderful experiences of college, and I don't want to be so focused on attaining my personal goals that I underappreciate the relative simplicity and ease of my current life. I want to be happy now, right now, without any conditions or stipulations; I don't want to wait to be happy. So, I am determined to notice the little things that give my life meaning and make me happy now - the minutia, the seemingly inconsequential occurrences and accomplishments that actually create my life more that the grand but rare events.

Here is a brief list of said recent occurrences and accomplishments:
  • David got a raise at his job
  • I might get a raise at my job
  • This past week, we planted the seeds in little plastic cups that will (hopefully) eventually populate our nascent garden
  • On Saturday, we leveled off the garden, turned over all the dirt (sidenote: next year, I think I'll save my body and rent a Roto-tiller or some such contraption), mixed in compost, and installed four out of the seven 8'-tall posts that will support the perimeter of our garden. Whew!
  • I found satin leopard-print flats at DSW that were 70% off - total damage, $11.98.
  • David and I saw "Sherlock Holmes" at the dollar theater on Friday. My favorite part? Rachel McAdams' makeup; within 24 hours, I was at home attempting to recreate her smokey purple eye. :)
  • I dyed my hair warm, dark brown this past week and, as I noted on my fashion blog, I already feel distinctly sassier. It did take two boxes of dye, as the first one turned out disastrously, but I managed to fix it and it's all good now.
There. I feel better already. Any suggestions about how to, to use a cliched phrase, appreciate the "journey" and not just the "destination?"